Not Asking for more than I’m Willing to Give

As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can’t do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man…or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, ‘What can you bring to the table?’ and let’s get one thing clear I am not referring to money, I need something MORE!

I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple-minded man (been there, done that).

I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don’t need to be unequally yoked…believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don’t need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn’t taking care of his business.

God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can’t help a man if he can’t help himself. I need a man who understands the meaning of loyalty, who knows the value of trust in a relationship. I need a man who has the upmost respect for women. I need a man who’s man enough to walk a way from a bad situation with his head held high (which is usually harder), but man enough to handle his business. The bottom line is that

I need a MAN! No imitations accepted.

Some say it’s asking for a lot, but shid I’m worth a lot.

I have edited this over time, but as of today this is where I stand.

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  1. Angela D Murray
    Jul.30.2011 - 9:26 AM | Permalink

    LOL. Take it from a woman who God has yoked with a man. We all need companionship, even if we deny it to our friends, self, etc. Please be still and your path will be directed..not in our time,but in God’s time…
    Yes, today, we as women have surpassed in many things of the world. Bottom line is that the only one who can meet all of our deepest Love needs is Christ. For our men, don’t be afraid of a strong independent woman, know what your talent is so that you may build one another up…grow in harmony…which is a lifetime commitment…”not a game”…this goes for us too ladies…at the end of the day…you have to love who you are…because no human can meet our deepest love needs.


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